I used to be very friendly and outgoing, now unless I am going to work and playing baseball, I find myself to be very quiet, shy and anti social. I often choose to isolate in my own apartment during the day with the shades down rather than go out and interact with others. A few mistakes in life changed my lifestyle and views on people that are not on the spectrum. I won't go into detail on those mistakes but I will say that I def do need some friends on the Spectrum to hang out with.