I don't think the majority of Aspie women are shallow just because you don't get a lot of responses from them. I think I would prefer an Aspie man because I think I would likely be better understood by him. But I'm pretty picky. I'd rather remain alone if I can't find someone who meets my minimum standards. Everyone is looking for someone different. Just be patient. Take care and I wish you the best.

but that's not how most women think* typo lol

I understand the frustration of people being innactive on this site. I want to make sure you're prepared to face the reality that I did recently. Be prepared to send out tons of messages and rarely get a reply. Not all of them, but most Autistic girls that use this site may use it for a little bit, and then go back to their other routines or go to other social media or dating sites. I understand many autistic men want an autistic woman but when you start to understand female psychology like I did you will start to understand that many autistic women will not want an autistic man, so your desire to find an autistic partner may not be mutual. This is caused due to the weaknesses that autistic men have, and I understand it would be fair for 2 weak people to come together and grow together, but that's how how most women think. A lot of aspie girls would rather have a NT man than an aspie man. This can be a very sad reality to face and it has lead me to depression. Also many men may think the quirks of aspies are cute in women but again the feeling may not be mutual in women. It's not fair, it's really not, but this is the reality we've been dealt. My advice to you is to keep on truckin and don't give up. Eventually we'll find a genuine autistic girl who isn't shallow like most women