My theory as to why many men get no replies from most women on this site is mainly due to hypergamy, rather than inactive users, but they both bulde together... let my explain.

Hypergamy, or the 80/20 rule is basically where 80% of women go after the *top* 20% of men. I had hoped that maybe Autistic women weren't that shallowlike NT women are, but it seems this may be the case.

Which brings me to another conclusion that many autistic women may not be active on the site because they may have just went and pursued NT men, since autistic men generally aren't in the top 20% of men.

To all the aspie guys, this is why you may only get attention from the 250+ pound single mother with 2-3 kids. I'm okay with single mothers, especially if the conception wasn't by choice and rather by rape. Im not saying I like rape, because I don't, but, atleast they didn't carry baggage from a previous relationship purposefully.

This post can sound somewhat jaded or sexist, and I'm aware that people are going to perceive it that way. I've been called sexist many times. I'm not, I'm just making an observation.

Also I see a lot of simpery on here by men, and also on autistic dating groups. Women don't like simps, guys, this is why even aspie women single for ass holes or degenerates because they'd rather have that than a *nice guy*.

If your true personality is a nice guy then that's an exception, because women like authenticity, so they will appreciate niceness and feel attracted to you.

Also take note, just because a woman and you have the same struggles and problems doesn't mean she's going to like you. Remember, it's attractive to me and other men when women are or were a victim in life, so we can help them and show love to them. But women aren't attracted to victim men, unless the man has already tightened his boot straps and is a victim no more.

This isn't sarcasm: it's okay and sometimes attractive for women to be weak. But not for men, women find weak men repulsive and disgusting, and if you're a girl and disagree with me, then message me explaining why you disagree.

Ofc take in mind we're talking about the bulk of women here, not the entire population of women, I'm just making a general statement. Always take statements from me with the understanding that I'm just making a generalization. My opinions or observations do not represent the entire observable subject.