I have been a widower for 8 yrs after two happy marriages, only found out about AS a couple of years ago. I have been retired for a good few years and enjoy several constructive hobbies, also occasional poetry writing. Looking for someone reasonably local, as I am not able to travel far(very slightly disabled). I am more concerned with soul-attraction than with appearance, I endeavour to keep myself as fit as I can. Some of my friends call me Gandalf(can't think why :) )- but my real name is Mike.